I get your message in the article - the only problem is that absolute balance is impossible in a universe that is constantly vibrating and in an energetic tug of war.
If you think of it from a supply-demand perspective you end up with supply or demand only and that leads itself to more imbalance.
For some people the prospect of living by themselves is actually healthy as some individuals are not meant to be with anyone.
I have to say women deserve it, both - the good and the bad...